Lorelei

Maybe, it's just that strange people DO the internet. I certainly include myself, lol.

I understand what you mean. And it could be taken another step. Even on the telephone, because you cannot see body language, the intended meanings of words can be misconstrued. On the other hand... even in person things can be misunderstood. I like this one quote by Kierkegaard: “People understand me so poorly that they don't even understand my complaint about them not understanding me.”

Typically what you find, any maybe this will help you in the future, people on the internet tend to take non articulated text as their personality suits them. This tells you a lot about somebody and is typically used as a self defense on the internet. People won't hint at their emotion until they know yours first. It has it's good and bad angles. Then once you find a group of people who are comfortable that just disappears.

The other thing to remember is that highly opinionated topics usually cause more stress than they are worth in a community environment. Everyone has their own views and opinions but don't worry, someone will also have a counter to anything ever said. :P To avoid a good bit of stress on highly energized topics I typically read more and post less if it's interesting and when i do post make it more open ended and commentary as to avoid getting flamed. Do be aware that the sandbox here is full of opinionated and flaming comments. If you don't want to deal with a lot of energetic opinions then steer clear lol

Welcome to TG!

Keep in mind, often people do understand both the tone and content of what you wrote but they already had answer prepared so they are forced to reinterpret what you wrote so it fits their pre-planned response.