Originally Posted by RGM-79N_GM_CUstom

Howdy guys i could use some advice too. I am falling for one of my best friends (sucks i know) and well she just sees me as a friend. Any ideas??

The thing is with friends, you're in a comfort zone. If she just wants to be friends, it's because you aren't the package she's looking for. This is eprfectly OK, and you shouldnt feel lowly/unworthy/depressed, because different personalities sometimes dont click. It's a fact of life, accept it and move on.

If you waste your time lingering around something that isn't going to happen, you'll do more damage to your image. You'd come across as clingy, needy, and generally a wuss. Women want a MAN, with confidence. It's the single highest trait most women will mention when they talk about their ideal partner.

Don't be affraid to move on if things don't seem to progress, because girls will do a lot of sh*t testing to see how ballsy/manly/fun a guy is. Often a girl that didn't appear interested before, will make an effort to make her interest known if she sees your attention going elsewhere (in other words, use jealousy as a tool). If she's dismissive either way, well at least you know for sure and you can find someone a bit more compatible.

Usually, once you're in the friends zone, it's very difficult to get anywhere else, unless there was something there to begin with but circumstance prevented something from happening (old boyfriend, etc...).

In short: You need to get out with other girls and enjoy yourself. If this friend of yours is interested, you'll pick up on the signals pretty quickly.