A lot of commanders fall into the trap of wanting to do too much.
When you're commanding a team off 32 players, you should leave a lot up to the squadleaders.

Try to relax and give orders only when they are really necassary. For instance when you see 3 squads defending the same base.
Otherwise it's just too demanding, and it's not fun anymore.

One of the most important jobs of a commander is to assign tasks. For instance when you attack a base, assign one squad to attack from the north, and the other to attack from the south.
When you see the enemy isn't defending one base at all, don't assign a squad to attack it, but notify the squadleaders there is an undefended base.

Like someone at this forum said earlier, you should leave a lot up to the squadleaders, otherwise they are just privates.
Try not to micromanage, watch and correct when something is going wrong.