AzzMan

+1,000,000 cool points.

Rincewind

LOL

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SkidMark

Im not trying to be mean, but dude, your only 14......

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AzzMan

Yeah, I know. However, I've been around people with the same problem a plethora of times. It has never failed in working before, so I figured why not mention it.

Uchiha Obito

So.... Azzman, would you say I have a plethora of pinatas?

My opinion? Don't say it unless you mean it, and try to make sure the other person is in the same place.

Use those synonyms often in places where you would say Love, pick ones you like best and use those.

Random gifts are always always good ideas, and if you're extra sneaky you can ask her seemingly innocent questions like, what kind of flowers/chocolates/candy/movies do you like? And then surprise her a week or two later when you buy her one of the aforementioned gifts. The girl thinks you listen to her every word, when really you set up the question and made sure to pay attention.

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AzzMan

Yes, Uchiha. You have a plethora.

Wulfyn

You won't need words to let her know how much you like her. Just be natural and say what feels right. Sentiment outweighs vocabulary. When the right time comes nothing will prevent you from being able to say it.

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SephirothValentine

Well with what I've seen above and adding to the fact that your 14... I might not suggest saying "I love you." "I care about you" is a very good one and I think would at least give her a sense of your feelings. Actually to tell the truth at your stage of life what you are feeling might be teenage love but it at least sounds as if you really like this girl. Remember not to do anything you well regret (trust me on this as my best friend just did something that is going to haunt him forever... and no I can't tell you what it is).

Truly... your actions speak louder than your words. I can suggest a few things to do for her if you really care for her just say the word.

Oh... I'm serious about helping you if you want it.

Last thing... you are gonna have to be the final judge on what you say and do for her. Just remember to think before you do something or at least try to.

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luna

Alright, time to bring in the big guns. Let the chick around here give you some advice.

Telling her that you love her does seem premature, I agree. I also like the "I care about you" route, but it's also a very typical substitute for when a guy is too scared to tell someone he loves them so his buddies tell him to tell her he "cares" about her.

Your best bet is to actually tell her what you're feeling. Does she make your insides turn upside down? Do you get all stupid when you think of her? Do you like her so much that you are nervous around her? Do you think she's beautiful? TELL HER. These are the things that make us swoon. Too often, guys look for these catch-all phrases that end up somewhat empty. She can go back to her friends and say "He cares about me!" but that doesn't have the same emotional impact as telling her friends, "Guys, he told me that he thinks I am beautiful and that he can't sit still thinking about me." See what I'm saying here?

This is good advice to all of you guys, by the way. Women absolutely need to hear more than I love you. They need to hear why you love them, what about them appeals to you, and on a regular basis. No gift in the world will have the same lasting affect as you taking a moment to be brutally sincere about how much you adore her. Her ego goes through the roof, and your relationship gets a huge boost everytime you take it upon yourself to build her self-image up.

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AzzMan

I know I'm 14, but I didn't know the topic creator was.

It's like Big Brother, I'll figure it out by the end of the day through one means or anotehr

AzzMan

This will end worse than Saw.

Not unlike what I did yeah no maybe.

That's the kind of thinking only you people can do. Good job on that one I say.

I actually learned something here.

luna

Just doing my part to help out my fellow TG peeps. *snicker*

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AzzMan

I feel offended by your blatant superiority.

SephirothValentine

Oops.... Yeah sorry about that Black Viper. Well then never mind anything I said about teenage love. But some of that stuff is still ok for you so take what you may and I have some good tips too.

Oh yeah listen to Luna also since... she is a girl after all . But a guy advise also works in different ways, although your own thoughts about the subject should make the final decisions. Just let us help.

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Black_V!per

Wow luna, i knew someone would make sence of this all...

17-Years of age


Thanks guys, and many thanks to you luna, all of you helped quite a bit.

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