1st "date" - Page 2

RainbowRandolph · 06-18-2004, 02:00 PM

sup been a long time since i last posted but im starting to get back into ns and this server rocks.

But hey man the only advice i can give is if you like her let her know, which sounds stupid since she should already know seeing how your on a date. But for some reason i find things flow a lot better if you let her know how you feel but also let her know, indirectly of course, that she has to be willing to initiate something and its not all on you.
gl hf

Sniper · 06-18-2004, 02:15 PM

many thanks guys, especially you DDog

I know not to carry those *things* around. Screw sex until im married. I will take in consideration all the good advice

I'll let you know how it turned out

HSantal · 06-18-2004, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sniper

many thanks guys, especially you DDog

I know not to carry those *things* around.

Very good.

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Originally Posted by Sniper

Screw sex ..

Look. A pun.

**luna** · 06-18-2004, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by wwwMEMORYnet

dude, your 15, go eat some fast food and play mini golf or something. through your convos find out waht she does for fun and go do that. Dont over think it, just go have fun as if you were hanging out with a friend. Also try find out what she is into.

Main point: Relax and have fun.

And the way to find out what she does for fun is NOT by asking "So, what do you do for fun?" That will lead to the typically lame reply of "oh, I like to swim, hang out with friends, etc.." and you will be left with absolutely no information that is worth anything. Just be yourself. Don't try and be anyone other than who you naturally are. We can sense when guys are putting on a show.

I agree with the dinner first THEN movie thing. I can't imagine a first date starting in 2 hours of silence. Without conversation first, it'd be pretty cliche to even try and hold her hand. A good date location- amusement parks. Find out if there's a daredevil in her. Get her adrenaline going, and she will associate that "high" with being around YOU.

**_Ender_** · 06-18-2004, 03:01 PM

coupons are your friend

Emanon · 06-18-2004, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Sniper

I know not to carry those *things* around. Screw sex until im married

Ya dont carry those around till you start going to parties and bars, aka alcohol is involved bring a gym hat. Sometimes you just never know what you will do.

Married? wow, well your 15 or so, just wait till those hormones kick in, you will even start looking at the family dog funny. lol jk

**luna** · 06-18-2004, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DrDoom

here are a few suggestions.....
-eye contact is always good. just don't do it too much, you'll freak her out.
-whatever you do, don't stare at her boobs. it's seriously annoying. no matter how much you want to, DO NOT STARE AT THE BOOBS.
-while you are doing all this thinking about how to act and what to do, remember to listen to what she is saying. if you are making conversation, and asking her questions, pay attention to the answers. she will know if you aren't listening and wonder why the heck you are there
-notice what she is wearing. you don't have to get all carson from queer eye with her about her outfit, but if she has on something you like, or she looks good, tell her. she will love the compliment, and the fact that you noticed.
-enjoy yourself. she is just as nervous and excited as you are. she said "yes" didn't she?

oh, and DdogG? where were you when i needed you?
we need more men in the world who have a clue, and a little creativity.
you should teach this stuff to the other men on the planet. travel around giving seminars or something...........................

I second this!

Can you also teach men that those great things you do at the beginning can be continued even AFTER you really start dating? Impressing a girl shouldn't stop once you land her.

Sniper · 06-18-2004, 05:41 PM

Off i go, Into the deep blue yonder..
Seeing The day after tomorrow

then eating (she insisted we do it after :P)
Wish meh luck! CYAS

**luna** · 06-18-2004, 06:39 PM

Best of luck to you- be sure to let us know how you make out!

**GhostintheShell** · 06-18-2004, 07:01 PM

One or two tips from me....don't try to be too funny. There's times to be more serious as well. Did you ever try to sleep with a giggling chick? I rest my case.

Also, don't try to be her "perfect" best friend either you'll just spend you whole life pursuing her and trying to get into her pants, acting like her "platonic" friend and listening to her yapping like you are her emotional tampon or something all the time hoping to jump her bones. You can spend like 10 years playing that role before you get fed up with it, especially if she's hot.

Geisha · 06-18-2004, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by =luna=

Best of luck to you- be sure to let us know how you make out!

*snort* Now, luna, do we really need a guy on his first date to tell us how to do that?

Seriously, have fun Sniper and I hope ... hmm, how to say this without involving puns or innuendos ... I hope your excursion is enjoyable. (There, I think that's safe enough)

**Wyzcrak** · 06-18-2004, 07:03 PM

lmao Geisha.. you beat me to it!

I was going to say... yeah.. and be sure to tell us how dinner went, too! haha

Emanon · 06-18-2004, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Geisha

*snort* Now, luna, do we really need a guy on his first date to tell us how to do that?

Those, stuffed animals/pillow/hand got a working eh?

**luna** · 06-18-2004, 07:57 PM

I was going to add a "keep your minds out of the gutters!" comment, but refrained. Silly me!

Sniper · 06-18-2004, 09:48 PM

Back!

I was myself, and it was awesome. I did many tips here, and it worked. Excluding the silence between us during the movies, it was extremly active between us. We talked for longer than I expected at the restaruant. It was awesome. Thx for the help guys/girls

06-18-2004, 02:00 PM	#16 (permalink)
RainbowRandolph Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 3	Re: 1st "date" sup been a long time since i last posted but im starting to get back into ns and this server rocks. But hey man the only advice i can give is if you like her let her know, which sounds stupid since she should already know seeing how your on a date. But for some reason i find things flow a lot better if you let her know how you feel but also let her know, indirectly of course, that she has to be willing to initiate something and its not all on you. gl hf

06-18-2004, 02:15 PM	#17 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" many thanks guys, especially you DDog I know not to carry those things around. Screw sex until im married. I will take in consideration all the good advice I'll let you know how it turned out __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

06-18-2004, 03:01 PM	#20 (permalink)
_Ender_ Join Date: May 2003 Location: I am lost, if you know where I am then please feel free to tell me. Age: 29 Posts: 2,048	Re: 1st "date" coupons are your friend

06-18-2004, 05:41 PM	#23 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" Off i go, Into the deep blue yonder.. Seeing The day after tomorrow then eating (she insisted we do it after :P) Wish meh luck! CYAS __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

06-18-2004, 06:39 PM	#24 (permalink)
luna Join Date: May 2003 Location: Rhode Island Age: 30 Posts: 4,135	Re: 1st "date" Best of luck to you- be sure to let us know how you make out! __________________ Resurgent's New Motivational Motto: "Now train harder! Live inside your character! If it dies, YOU DIE! Focus!" Jesus had a soulstone.

06-18-2004, 07:01 PM	#25 (permalink)
GhostintheShell Join Date: May 2003 Location: Guelph, Ontario Age: 37 Posts: 963	Re: 1st "date" One or two tips from me....don't try to be too funny. There's times to be more serious as well. Did you ever try to sleep with a giggling chick? I rest my case. Also, don't try to be her "perfect" best friend either you'll just spend you whole life pursuing her and trying to get into her pants, acting like her "platonic" friend and listening to her yapping like you are her emotional tampon or something all the time hoping to jump her bones. You can spend like 10 years playing that role before you get fed up with it, especially if she's hot.

06-18-2004, 07:03 PM	#27 (permalink)
Wyzcrak Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 14,139	Re: 1st "date" lmao Geisha.. you beat me to it! I was going to say... yeah.. and be sure to tell us how dinner went, too! haha __________________ Steam Community? Add me. \| Join #tacticalgamer \| Search Results Legend \| New Posts Forum Filter \| Postbox Toggle \| Live Thread Review \| One Line Results \| Free Remote, Encrypted Backup Darkilla: In short, NS is pretty much really fast chess. With guns. Apophis: I haven't seen anyone say that SM's are better than non-SMs. Nordbomber: This is THE first server I've seen where either side can comeback from out of seemingly nowhere with the right teamwork. en4rcment: I have NEVER experienced the type of gameplay that I have found here. Nightly I am amazed at the personalities and gaming talent. Root: Welcome to TG. Feel free to punctuate your sentences correctly. Monkerz: Its gonna take all my skills to beat those boys off in the future.

06-18-2004, 07:57 PM	#29 (permalink)
luna Join Date: May 2003 Location: Rhode Island Age: 30 Posts: 4,135	Re: 1st "date" I was going to add a "keep your minds out of the gutters!" comment, but refrained. Silly me! __________________ Resurgent's New Motivational Motto: "Now train harder! Live inside your character! If it dies, YOU DIE! Focus!" Jesus had a soulstone.

06-18-2004, 09:48 PM	#30 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" Back! I was myself, and it was awesome. I did many tips here, and it worked. Excluding the silence between us during the movies, it was extremly active between us. We talked for longer than I expected at the restaruant. It was awesome. Thx for the help guys/girls __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

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