1st "date" - Page 4

**=DdogG=** · 06-19-2004, 01:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrDoom

here are a few suggestions.....
-eye contact is always good. just don't do it too much, you'll freak her out.
-whatever you do, don't stare at her boobs. it's seriously annoying. no matter how much you want to, DO NOT STARE AT THE BOOBS.
-while you are doing all this thinking about how to act and what to do, remember to listen to what she is saying. if you are making conversation, and asking her questions, pay attention to the answers. she will know if you aren't listening and wonder why the heck you are there
-notice what she is wearing. you don't have to get all carson from queer eye with her about her outfit, but if she has on something you like, or she looks good, tell her. she will love the compliment, and the fact that you noticed.
-enjoy yourself. she is just as nervous and excited as you are. she said "yes" didn't she?

oh, and DdogG? where were you when i needed you?
we need more men in the world who have a clue, and a little creativity.
you should teach this stuff to the other men on the planet. travel around giving seminars or something...........................

hmm... good idea..... Tha DdogG's 12 steps to gettin laid the first time every time. hehehehe

sorry, I couldnt resist.

kaxman · 06-19-2004, 02:10 AM

If you become her friend now, you'll never get sex from her in two years when you actually care about it.

Edit: This thread is like a voyage back in time to Plymouth Rock. Puritans.

Sniper · 06-19-2004, 02:29 AM

umm.. reguarding emanon's post earlier.. the hormones have hit, duh :P I'm just being mature about it

I will keep this post handy, no doubt. You also know you have a close connection with a community when you share this stuff :P (yes, i asked my parents too... you guys arent the only ones i asked :P)

Here's to the end of an AWESOME day, and a hope-to-be awesome future!!

**wwwMEMORYnet** · 06-19-2004, 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sniper

Actually, you started it psi.. She loves anime!

I will open up a site for me and her soon with torrents and all

but thx for the congrats psi

Congrats snipe!!!

let me know on the site

Sniper · 06-19-2004, 04:33 AM

And I will asap... basically when my dad lets me pay :P

Vap0r · 06-19-2004, 06:40 PM

Tips of my own - just relax, have fun and be confident.

The tips in this thread are indeed useful. I might have to try some soon I haven't a 'date' in a good while

**_Ender_** · 06-19-2004, 06:42 PM

you asked your parents? uhhhh why?

Sniper · 06-19-2004, 07:28 PM

Uhhh cuz i dont have a credit card or paypal account. I'm not 2something like many of you are... im 15

kaxman · 06-19-2004, 08:35 PM

Edit: e, we should hang out and drink some beers. Didn't you say you were moving? Where to?

I saw this thing on my TV the other day; said that if she plays with her hair she's prob'ly keen.

Sniper · 06-19-2004, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by eternal

Wow I missed throwing in my 2 cents before the first big date. I actually sat here and typed it out then thought "maybe I better check and see if he has done the deed allready and gone out with the man/woman".

I was going to say:

HAHA, man I could pick you out of a line up. U would be the ugly guy masterbating furiously. I didn't have a date from 16 to (well late) that didn't end up or be initiated through attraction and lead to sex.
At his age it's all about sexual attraction. The good news is that she is interested. The bad news is he doesn't know how much.
Talk to her, listen to her, she will let you know how far you can go but come prepared for anything.

I know some people allready said it but I think it needs repeated. Don't do a movie and dinner. Talk her for a walk in the park or something.

and I still stand by that.

Ah i see, but actually, i didnt ask her because of her prettyness :P
Actually, we got to know each other on the bus ride home (imagine that, eh?) and we had tons of same things in common.. from anime, to movies... ect. many things. But yes, I do agree while we are young, most of it is sexual attraction.. atleast that what my friends are into it for. They think thier hot, they ask them out.. a few weeks later they break up. I'm into it because of tons of personality similarities. The fast that she is pretty also helps

We are like... one of a kind i guess i can say. We can talk for hours on anything :P

Vap0r · 06-20-2004, 11:34 AM

I agree there is a difference between seeing a girl in the street, thinking she is good looking and being attracted, and knowing a girl but feeling a connection.

Combining the two is often the hard part in the early years but when it is done it is a great feeling.

Seems like you have both so best of luck Sniper!

**Tempus** · 06-20-2004, 12:36 PM

Wow, we are all vicariously re-living our youth through Sniper.

Benny_ · 06-20-2004, 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vap0r

I agree there is a difference between seeing a girl in the street, thinking she is good looking and being attracted, and knowing a girl but feeling a connection.

Combining the two is often the hard part in the early years but when it is done it is a great feeling.

and if all else fails get her drunk.....

**_Ender_** · 06-20-2004, 04:54 PM

The best first date ever is a concert.

kaxman · 06-20-2004, 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eternal

If you can roll over after that long and still be all full of morning wood then it's a good thing you got going. :0

Oh you card.

06-19-2004, 02:10 AM	#47 (permalink)
kaxman Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 55	Re: 1st "date" If you become her friend now, you'll never get sex from her in two years when you actually care about it. Edit: This thread is like a voyage back in time to Plymouth Rock. Puritans.

06-19-2004, 02:29 AM	#48 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" umm.. reguarding emanon's post earlier.. the hormones have hit, duh :P I'm just being mature about it I will keep this post handy, no doubt. You also know you have a close connection with a community when you share this stuff :P (yes, i asked my parents too... you guys arent the only ones i asked :P) Here's to the end of an AWESOME day, and a hope-to-be awesome future!! __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

06-19-2004, 04:33 AM	#50 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" And I will asap... basically when my dad lets me pay :P __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

06-19-2004, 06:40 PM	#51 (permalink)
Vap0r Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 310	Re: 1st "date" Tips of my own - just relax, have fun and be confident. The tips in this thread are indeed useful. I might have to try some soon I haven't a 'date' in a good while

06-19-2004, 06:42 PM	#52 (permalink)
_Ender_ Join Date: May 2003 Location: I am lost, if you know where I am then please feel free to tell me. Age: 29 Posts: 2,048	Re: 1st "date" you asked your parents? uhhhh why?

06-19-2004, 07:28 PM	#53 (permalink)
Sniper Join Date: May 2003 Location: Memphis Age: 19 Posts: 1,724	Re: 1st "date" Uhhh cuz i dont have a credit card or paypal account. I'm not 2something like many of you are... im 15 __________________ New Server1 IP. Read the stickies!! This is how you check your STEAMID and register it.

06-19-2004, 08:35 PM	#54 (permalink)
kaxman Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 55	Re: 1st "date" Edit: e, we should hang out and drink some beers. Didn't you say you were moving? Where to? I saw this thing on my TV the other day; said that if she plays with her hair she's prob'ly keen.

06-20-2004, 11:34 AM	#56 (permalink)
Vap0r Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 310	Re: 1st "date" I agree there is a difference between seeing a girl in the street, thinking she is good looking and being attracted, and knowing a girl but feeling a connection. Combining the two is often the hard part in the early years but when it is done it is a great feeling. Seems like you have both so best of luck Sniper!

06-20-2004, 12:36 PM	#57 (permalink)
Tempus Join Date: May 2003 Location: Miami, FL Age: 38 Posts: 8,170	Re: 1st "date" Wow, we are all vicariously re-living our youth through Sniper.

06-20-2004, 04:54 PM	#59 (permalink)
_Ender_ Join Date: May 2003 Location: I am lost, if you know where I am then please feel free to tell me. Age: 29 Posts: 2,048	Re: 1st "date" The best first date ever is a concert.

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