Demand it; don't get it.
see "Band of Brothers".

You listen, but look away.
You hear, but stay silent.
It's called dishonesty.

What I call it? heh ... who asks?
Squaddie? get your head in the game.
Officer? Oh gee golly shucks, Sir, I'm so confused.

2+2 ... suck it up.
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